It wasn’t too long ago that you could read headlines like this one:
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or like this one:
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Today my heart is hurting because I read another horrible story like the ones reported above and I’m feeling uneasy. Metal In Italy, among many others, reported the news about a car accident happened last night on an Italian highway, where 4 musicians lost their lives: a truck, out of control, invaded the opposite lane crushing the van they were traveling in (News in Italian here).
I am extremely touched by this not only because I’ve always been literally scared to death of going around on the road, especially at night and on small vehicles, but also because I recently found myself in a terribly dangerous situation and I can’t help thinking that things could have gone differently and end horribly for me too. I could be overreacting, but I honestly feel like survivor.
After the amazing night Ancient Bards had in Milan (at LT’s Rhapsody’s last show of the tour), we got in the car at 1:00 heading back home. Needless to say we were tired but in full condition for driving (we wouldn’t take the risk of driving when too exhausted). So, long story short, we were quietly driving south when all of a sudden we (thank god!) noticed that in front of us, instead of the red lights of the back of the cars driving in our same direction, there were two frightening white lights! Some stupid woman, drunk as f**k, had taken the highway in the wrong direction. That means that we avoided a frontal crash at 120 km/h. It took me some time to let what happened sink in, because it was so absurd and unexpected that I couldn’t realize that it had actually happened. And when it finally hit me I was shocked.
It takes so little to change things and lives forever. Too many people risk their lives while doing the thing they love the most, too often on cheap vehicles loaded with expensive instruments, to play for free at a distant venue. Just to keep the dream alive.
Of course, this could happen to anyone, people working, people going on vacation, musicians, lawyers, salespersons etc. but I’m looking at things from the musician point of view and I can’t help feeling sad and worried.
Please, everyone, be safe and pay attention when driving!
if you’re tired and sleepy, stop, take a little nap and drive when you’re feeling refreshed.
It is our duty to do the best we can to avoid what can EASILY be avoided.